Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.

James 1:19

Problem-solving is my nature. So, when a relative, friend, or acquaintance comes to me with an issue, I want to resolve it. If I’m presented with a challenge, I focus on meeting it. Sometimes my approach brings positive results and helps. Other times, my tenaciousness simply exhausts and overwhelms. As I get older, I better understand that.

Now, instead of responding in a flurry of action, I take a breath and listen. Wholly. Lovingly.

In doing so, I’ve discovered a divine gift: the blessing of compassionate listening. It gives others the space to be heard and connect to the Lord’s best solutions. It also grants me greater calm and understanding.

Elizabeth Cavanaugh
South Pasadena, CA

Heavenly Father, thank you for the blessing of greater understanding as we age. It prompts us to slow down and fully listen to your guidance and the needs of others. Amen.

Reflect: Take extra time to listen with focus and empathy as you engage with those around you.

Read: Proverbs 1:5 and Proverbs 18:13